Dreamality?

Dreams and reality. Reality and dreams. Where does one stop and the other begin?

I am a firm believer that every person has a God-given dream deep within their hearts.

I am also a firm believer that it honors God when we chase after those dreams.

What was my dream? I wanted to see the world. I wanted to do big things for the glory of the Kingdom. I wanted to make an impact. I wanted my life to mean something.

Long ago, God placed the seed of that dream within my heart. He grew and developed the dream, and helped me realize it, as He grew and developed me and my faith. God called me to follow Him across the borders of many waters and many lands, and I said “yes.” It wasn’t an immediate “yes,” and saying it wasn’t without many a struggle and many an obstacle, but I did say it.

And I’ll never regret that I did.

But I will say that saying “yes” brought along challenges I never dreamed of. This past year I faced the ugly parts of myself, the ugly parts of humanity, and the ugliness and brokenness of this world. But through it I grew. SO much. Through it I learned lessons I never would have otherwise. Through it I changed. A lot.

And there comes the tough part. I changed. So, who am I now? A world traveler? Sure. A missionary? I suppose. All I know is I’m not who I was. And that’s what I wanted. I knew I couldn’t remain the same—I knew I didn’t want to.

But how do I live as the new me in this old life? It is familiar: I sleep in the same bed, I drive the same roads, I have picked up my old daily routine. But it doesn’t feel the same. Everything is different now because I am different.

I can’t figure it out. I don’t know how to describe it. When I was at home, I dreamed of going away. When I was away, I dreamed of being home. And now I am back home, and it feels as if I am in a dream, floating along somewhere in between the two worlds I know: the “3^rd World Country Simple Life Out of a Backpack” and the “U.S. of A. Familiar But Not Quite So Familiar” worlds.

Is it my human nature that can never be satisfied, whether here or abroad? Is it the great chasm between the two lives I’ve lived? Is it merely making the transition home that is so hard?

I haven’t figured it out yet. Being home is harder than I ever imagined, but I can’t really tell you why. I want to feel normal again, like myself—but what and who is that?? And how do I get there? How long will it take?

How could I have ever imagined that this is what it would be like on the other end? I have to keep reminding myself that, despite the seemingly endless variety of emotions I feel on a daily basis, there is One who is constant, who is my Rock. I have to remind myself that though I don’t quite feel at home here, there is One who is my Home, where I can always rest my head. I have to remind myself that even when I cannot see what lies ahead, there is One who can, who already knows, and who knows that what lies ahead is good. It’s always good.

I know I’ve been silent in these last weeks since I’ve arrived home. I haven’t known what to say—honestly, I haven’t known what to think most of the time. But I do want to say thank you from the very bottom of my heart to all of you who have supported me, in prayer, in friendship, and monetarily.

Thank you for making this dream come true for me.

Thank you for walking with me and loving me.

Thank you for being a part of my story.

What’s really exciting is that my story, my dream doesn’t stop here. God has much more. I don’t know what it is yet, but He is always stirring something. I fell in love with the town of Candelaria, Nicaragua. I left my heart in the village of Bakong, Cambodia. Maybe God will call me back. Maybe He has brand new adventures waiting around the corner. We’ll just have to wait and see.